Jul 18, 2011

The Princess Festival

A few weeks ago, Madeleine’s Grandma and Grandpa Snow bought her a ticket to the Princess Festival held at Thanksgiving Point.
They even bought her a new princess dress for the occasion.

 

Madeleine was able to meet all the princesses (Rapunzel is her favorite, hence her braids),

 

 

watch a few plays (here she’s watching Snow White),

 

do some service activities (drawing pictures for soldiers and sewing a blanket for children in the hospital),

 

 

 

and explore (being Tinkerbell and wandering in Alice in Wonderland’s maze).

 

 

We had a very nice mother/daughter day out with all the princesses. A BIG thanks to Grandma and Grandpa Snow for giving us a special time out together and for helping Madeleine feel like the princess that she is. We love you!

A few more pictures for the grandparents are here.

Jul 8, 2011

Beginning Décor: Formal Living Room

There is always so much to do with a house, both inside and out. We are slowly, yet surely, making our new house our home.There are still so many other things that I want to do. The list grows longer and longer by the day and I’m convinced that it’ll never be complete. But that’s okay. I’m just grateful for a nice and safe place to lay my head.

This post is about our formal living room beginning to come together. There are a few more things we need in order to complete it, but it’s on its way. This is my color scheme. I found this Ralph Lauren Home fabric for $2 a yard. I’m planning on making drapes out of it. Total cost for custom drapes = $8. The pattern is actually quite small so I’m hoping it doesn’t clash with the sofa. If it does, I’ll use it to cover a chair seat or for pillows.

First up, our new sofa. I wasn’t looking for a print, but this was such a good deal I couldn’t resist. We got this at Linda’s Furniture on Highland Drive. They sell new and used furniture and we went there looking for a used sofa but found this instead. It was new but a floor model so it had been marked down significantly…and I mean significantly. I looked up the price online and it was a whopping $2000.  Guess how much I paid. Nope, too high. $350.00. Yep. Three hundred and fifty dollars for a brand new Ethan Allen sofa. Whoo!!

I’ve been lusting after nail head details as of late and this just happened to fill that desire of mine. I haven’t even mentioned how comfortable it is to sit on. Cushy. Firm. Sturdy. Perfect. So, with all the perks, I was willing to go with a pattern.

Next up is this chair. Solid hardwood construction. I found this brand spanking new Holsgag Canada chair at DI for $15. I couldn’t find the exact one online but similar chairs were priced at over $100. It’s a petite-sized chair which is perfect for me, but I’m undecided whether or not it is too small for the space I have for it in the room. It may end up going somewhere else. Eventually I will recover the seat, not because it needs it, but just because it could use a little kick. I also have a dark green upholstered arm chair on the other side of the room.

 

I bought this fabric for about $6. I will use it for to either cover the chair or for pillows.

My lamp. I like the texture of the lampshade but the color blends in too much with the rest of the room, so I’d like to change that some time. But I just love the shape of its base. It’s resting on my piano.

 

This next piece of furniture deserves a post all its own. My mom’s dad built this for her mom in the ‘70’s. From what I understand, he wasn’t a vocally loving man and he wasn’t particularly kind, even. But he did love his family and showed it by always providing well for them and made sure they had nice things. He loved to woodwork and built this huge and lovely china hutch for his wife. Look at the detail!

 

 

    

 

 

 

I feel so, so privileged to have this piece passed on to me and I’m lucky I have space for it! Did I mention it’s about 7 feet tall?  This is still a work in progress. I need to get some new glass for the doors. I’m not sure if all these things work in here, but they are mostly things we already have that are meaningful to us and just happen to be in the color range of the room. Great!

 

Here is some info about the accent pieces. I rarely buy things just because…I like to have some sort of connection to them. But two of the pieces in the hutch were bought on a whim. I’ve always wanted an hourglass and the one on the top left was actually bought for the kitchen (the accent color in there is granny apple green) but then I realized that the only place to put it is within easy reach of the kids. So for now, it’s here.

The # sign on the bottom is also a chance purchase from the clearance aisle at Hobby Lobby. Rob works with numbers all the time, so I figured it kind of worked for us. Plus, its carved out of a solid piece of wood which I thought was cool.

Rob brought the conch shell on top of the books home from his mission in the South Pacific. The books underneath it are from different countries we have visited. I still need to put something in the planter, but I don’t know what yet.The two photographs are from Rob and I. The next set of books were Christmas gifts for each of the years I worked for the Church. Next to them are Big Ben and the Eiffel Tower from my trip. The glass jar with nuts, etc. in it has no meaning. I just happened to have it. The brass bowl on the bottom is from Rob’s Grandma and Grandpa Williams from when they lived in Pakistan, I believe.

 

This oil painting was my first (and only) work of art. When I was visiting my Grandma Clark in Tehachapi, CA one summer when I was 10 years old she gave me a lesson. She is an artist and has done many paintings. This is a picture of the Tehachapi Mountains in which she lived at the time. I have many good memories of traveling to her red house in the mountains but her giving me a paint lesson using all her best oils is one of my favorite. Maybe I’ll take up the hobby some day…

 

 

The last thing to do is decide which art work we want on the wall above the sofa and above the chair. Since the furnishings ended up being very traditional in style we want to juxtapose them with something more contemporary and with something that stands out from all the green and beige tones. We have a large library of photos to choose from and if we don’t want any of those we can always go out and shoot what we want. But what do we want?? That’s the question that has left our walls bare.

If we ever finish the room, I’ll be sure to post the final project.

Jul 7, 2011

An Interview with the Kiddos

What is you favorite food?

NATE: Mac n cheese, pizza, dino nuggets, beans n wieners
MADELEINE: Sandwiches

What is your favorite game to play with each other?

NATE: cars
MADELEINE: wrestling, Batmunk

What chore do you dislike the most?

NATE: Cleaning up toys ‘cause there are lots of toys.
MADELEINE: Clothes

What is your favorite song?

NATE: Battleforce 5 and Anberlin, Animal Kingdom, and Gomez
MADELEINE: A Child of God

Where is your favorite place to go with mom?

NATE: Carnival and Boondocks and McDonald’s
MADELEINE: Jungle Jim’s

What is your favorite thing about our new house?

NATE: I like making new friends.
MADELEINE: Sydney

What makes you so mad?

NATE: When we get stuck in traffic jams.
MADELEINE: Taking puppets (stuffed animals) away from me.

What do you like most about Caroline?

NATE: Kissing her.
MADELEINE: Playing with her.

What has been your favorite vacation that we’ve been on?

NATE: When we visited Grandma Maria.
MADELEINE: Going to Jordin’s house (in Murray).

What pet do you want?

NATE: I don’t know yet. (He’s been studying the animal encyclopedia trying to decide.)
MADELEINE: A cow, just like my puppet.

What do you want to be when you grow up?

NATE: Rock Star
MADELEINE: A cash register store.

What super power do you want?

NATE: For I can get cool punches.
MADELEINE: The power of wind.

Jul 1, 2011

Family Adventure

I love taking my family on adventures. Sometimes they’re big(gish) adventures but most of the time they’re small…
as in visiting the field at the end of the block.

Even though there was nothing “grand” about this adventure, it was adventure none the less. The kids blew huge dandelions into the wind, observed and caught a myriad of ladybugs, and walked in flowers that reached higher than their heads.

 

 

These are some of my favorite times: my family, in nature, discovering.

 

May you take your own children on adventures and enjoy the moments.

Jun 30, 2011

Danielle the Graduate

 

Rob’s cousin, Danielle, recently graduated from West High School and in the fall she’s headed off to SUU. How exciting!! This time of life is such a fun one. Lots of experiences, both learning and fun (often at the same time).

 

We’re so proud of you, Danielle!

…and your amazing mom.

Jun 24, 2011

On the Old Noodle

Here’s what’s been swimming around in my head as of late.

Potty Training:

 

 

 

 

 

Can I just say, “Shoot me.”?

Madeleine turned 3 in March and we have tried potty training her about four times in the last year. She doesn’t have any motivation to do it. Bribery, praise, consistency, punishment, it doesn’t matter. Nothing works. This time we’re committed. I’m sure it just makes things worse that we’ve quit before, but I kept thinking that maybe she just isn’t ready. Well, she’s ready and so am I. It’s embarrassing. It’s gross. It’s expensive. We’re done.

We started Monday night and she has had exactly THREE successes. Three. This girl can hold her bladder…for HOURS. I have to have her in my line of sight at all times or she’ll pee. This makes my day extremely boring and extremely frustrating. We can’t go anywhere. I can’t let her play on her own. I can’t do anything. How long can this possibly last???

 

Grass:

Getting our grass in is also very slow-going. Rob’s been working overtime at work and our evenings and weekends are always packed with other commitments. Of course, working by himself with nothing but a shovel and a wheelbarrow doesn’t exactly speed things along. This weekend he’s hoping to have all of the old layer of soil with the weeds/dead grass in it hauled to the dump. Then he needs to spread topsoil and fertilizer, till, and level. Who knows when all that will actually get done.

Then we are still undecided whether to do Hydroseed or sod. Both have advantages and disadvantages. But first we need to decide what type of grass we want and then get complete estimates.

We haven’t even started thinking about the front yard’s grass…

 

Family Vacation:

This is always a dilemma for me, mostly because I want to go everywhere and do everything. It’s a little harder with three very young kids, though. Actually, make that a lot harder.

We’re planning on going to Southern California next year, so this year do we want to go to southern Utah again (where it’s amazingly beautiful and peaceful), or Great Basin National Park and Lehman Caves (where the nearest decent hotel is 1 1/2 hours away. We’d have to drive back and forth each day), Jackson Hole (hotel is pricey), or just stay local and do fun stuff (Lagoon, Bear Lake, Real Soccer, Drive-In Movie). I wish we could camp because that would cut the cost down immensely, but I’m not brave enough to do that with Caroline yet. All the above options sound fun, but which one will be the MOST fun??

 

Brazilian Ju Jitsu:

Nate’s been asking for months to do karate. After doing some research I think Ju Jitsu would be the best choice for him. I don’t mind the monthly fee…if it were one or two installments. The problem comes if he really, really enjoys it and doesn’t want it to be a trial run. Then we have the monthly fee for years and years to come. I’m not sure our budget is ready for that kind of commitment. You know?

 

Well, thanks for letting me get all that stuff off my chest.

Jun 20, 2011

Father’s Day Talks

Nate, Rob, and I were asked to speak in Sacrament Meeting at church yesterday. The theme, of course, was father’s. Nate talked about why he loves his dad. I talked about how to nurture the relationship between fathers and sons/daughters. Rob talked about how to become closer to our Heavenly Father through prayer.

Nate did such a STELLAR job. He wasn’t one bit afraid to get up in front of the congregation and deliver his talk. In preparation, he drew pictures to help him remember what to say and didn’t need any help from me. Here is his talk. It’s fantastic.

My dad is the best dad in the whole world. I love it when my dad makes paper airplanes for me. I love it when my dad plays hotwheels with me.

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I love it when my dad wrestles with me.

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I love it when my dad takes me to Cabella’s.

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I love it when my dad goes on a bike ride with me.

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I love it when my dad lets me play on his ipod. I love it when we make pizza together.

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My dad teaches me about the Priesthood and reads the scriptures to me every night.

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I love my dad very much. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

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Here’s my talk.

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Here’s Rob’s talk.

 

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Jun 13, 2011

New Nephew Ben

Last week Benjamin was born. Our family is so excited for this addition to our family. The kids are stoked for another cousin.

 

Visiting at the hospital.

 

Ben with his Great Grandma Williams. Nathan loves babies.

 

It’s hard to believe Caroline was that little a mere 8 months ago.

 

We wish their family lots of happiness and even more SLEEP (which aids with the happiness).

Family can see more pics here.

Jun 6, 2011

Our Chemical Romance

DISCLAIMER: I’m not making sweeping claims. I’m not pointing fingers. I’m not patronizing.

Everyone in Utah heard about the sweet family in Layton who had two little daughters killed from pesticides that were improperly applied to their yard. So, so tragic. That family lived just a few blocks from me. 

Almost everyone in the world has had a loved one die from cancer and wondered what caused it.

My son has a rare endocrine disease. Why?

Learning/behavioral disorders, type 1 diabetes, migraines, the list goes on and on.

I have been trying to live and raise my family in a more healthful way for a few years now. We've all heard about "going green" when it comes to food and energy, but I haven't heard very much reported on how toxic the world around us has become.

I picked up this book and decided it would be a good read in order to open my mind and be less ignorant of what is going on.

What's Gotten into Us?: Staying Healthy in a Toxic World

I'm not into scare tactics, which some of this book does use. But if you have a clear head and read it for general knowledge about what's going on, it's very informative.

 

PRODUCT DESCRIPTION: What’s Gotten into Us? is a deep, remarkable, and empowering investigation into the threats—biological and environmental—that chemicals now present in our daily lives.
Do you know what chemicals are in your shampoo? How about your cosmetics? Do you know what’s in the plastic water bottles you drink from, or the weed killer in your garage, or your children’s pajamas? If you’re like most of us, the answer is probably no. But you also probably figured that most of these products were safe, and that someone—the manufacturers, the government—was looking out for you.
The truth might surprise you.
After experiencing a health scare of his own, journalist McKay Jenkins set out to discover the truth about toxic chemicals, our alarming levels of exposure, and our government’s utter failure to regulate them effectively. What’s Gotten into Us? reveals how dangerous, and how common, toxins are in the most ordinary things, and in the most familiar of places:
• Our water: Thanks to suburban sprawl and agricultural runoff, 97 percent of our nation’s rivers and streams are now contaminated with everything from herbicides to pharmaceutical drugs.
• Our bodies: High levels of hormone-disrupting chemicals from cosmetics, flame-retardants from clothing and furniture, even long-banned substances like DDT and lead, are consistently showing up in human blood samples.
• Our homes: Many toxins lurk beneath our sinks and in our basements, of course, but did you know that they’re also found in wall-to-wall carpeting, plywood, and fabric softeners?
• Our yards: Pesticides, fungicides, even common fertilizers—there are enormous, unseen costs to our national obsession with green, weed-free lawns.
What’s Gotten Into Us? is much more than a wake-up call. It offers numerous practical ways for us to regain some control over our lives, to make our own personal worlds a little less toxic. Inside, you’ll find ideas to help you make informed decisions about the products you buy, and to disentangle yourself from unhealthy products you don’t need—so that you and your family can start living healthier lives now, and in the years to come. Because, as this book shows, what you don’t know can hurt you.

 

We all know these chemicals can be dangerous, but I don’t think we take it very seriously. We always hear “Yes, it can be dangerous, but with the small quantity we are exposed to, it’s not.”  Seriously, how many times have we heard that? The problem is…what about the cumulative effects of ALL the hundreds of “small quantities” we’re exposed to every day, let alone over our entire life???

Obviously, I’m not going to commit all of my energy and savings to implement everything non-toxic, but there have been some small changes we’ve made over the last couple of years to be more “green”. They include:

  • No microwaveable lunch entrees or popcorn
  • Some organic food where money permits.
  • Very limited high fructose corn syrup.
  • I buy very few snacks (I make them instead) and when we eat out, it is VERY rarely fast food. 
  • We try not to use store-bought plastic water bottles too much. We each have an aluminum one.
  • Hypoallergenic toiletries for kids. Their skin is SO sensitive to anything that isn’t 100% natural/hypoallergenic that they break out with eczema patches if they take 1 bath in “fun” bath bubbles.
  • We’ve significantly reduced the amount of cleaning chemicals we use (unless absolutely necessary). We use green products, vinegar, and a steam mop, which I LOVE.

In all honesty, these changes haven’t cost us any extra money. In fact, they SAVE money. Our grocery bill has actually gone down considerably.

The book has a hundred things we can do to limit our exposure to toxins but the top things we hope to implement over the next couple of years are:

  • Organic milk and meat
  • Vegetable garden
  • More native plants and flowers that promote natural habitats for local fauna and require less water.
  • Organic herbicides/pesticides. I hate going to the park and smelling the poison that was sprayed on the grass still lingering from even a couple of weeks earlier. My baby is playing on it! 

I’m really not trying to be a preacher or to put myself out there as an ultra-conservationist freak. I’m not blaming all cancer and other health issues on these toxins. I just want to be informed, not ignorant. I believe that continually implementing small changes can make a difference to my family’s health and wellness of life.

 

Here are a couple of links I’ve found to be helpful.

Safe Mama http://safemama.com/cheatsheets/
The original One-Stop Child Safety, Product Recall, Health, Well-Being, Non-Toxic, Eco-Conscious Resource, For Parents.

My Recipes  http://www.myrecipes.com/

Oompa Toys http://www.oompa.com/
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Shop Smart  http://www.shopsmartmag.org/
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