Sep 4, 2014

Nate & Madi Soccer

In May, Nate and Madi finished their soccer season. We decided not to sign up again this year but instead are exploring other extracurricular activities.

Rob enjoyed being Madeleine's soccer coach and he is excited to be Cara's in another year or two.


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Most of the season Nate looked like this. When I asked him why he didn't go for the ball more, he said, "I just figured the other boys can handle it!"

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For the last game we really encouraged him to go for it and he did.

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Aug 27, 2014

Home Decor: Kitchen/Dining

Okay so a few years ago I did a blog post entitled My Kitchen Want List. To this day it is the most viewed post on my blog. I couldn't tell you why. Maybe it has something to do with search words or something. Who knows.  But anyway, not a single thing from my previous Want List made it into my kitchen. Chalk it up to changing tastes and a desire to funnel funds into other projects instead.

Fast forward to now and my kitchen has gone from this

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to this.

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Huge transformation? No. Dramatic change? Not really.

Honestly, there really isn't much to see here. I'm such a minimalist and a cheapskate that I don't push my decor into the interesting column. It's just an everyday kitchen with nothing too special about it. I post it not because it's particularly post-able but because I like to document the story behind where and how we live.

The wall color is a continuation from the wall color in our family room. I wanted to paint more walls but Rob tends to like an accent wall. I actually thought I would like the color a little more than I do, otherwise I'd probably go ahead and paint more. The blue/black (depending on the light) pulls out the orange in the cabinets which I'm not thrilled about but at least it brings a little more personality to the space. The white outlet covers are so noticeable!

I decided to clear as much as possible off of the countertops because I cook with the kids all the time and need all the space I can get. I keep only mandatory, much-used items on top. The Bosch mixer is used many days of the week. I have a wood cutting board and bread hidden on the side of the fridge along with a basket for Rob's misc stuff (keys, etc).

The stool has become Cara's most beloved item in the kitchen. I bought it because of all the help the kids give me, and they certainly use it for that, but it's most often used as a little table. Caroline sits on the bottom step and puts her food on the top and eats most of her meals that way.

I like to use a pepper grinder and a little salt bowl that was handmade and given to us.

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Cara doesn't eat most things but she has recently decided to love kiwi. I buy the big packs and she eats them all. And yes, her poop is very green.

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This is going to sound a little odd but I need to give some love to this silly soap dispenser. We've gone through many dispensers and this is by far my favorite one ever. I got tired of the metal ones rusting and making marks on my countertop. I got tired of the fake metal ones peeling and looking gross. This plastic one has a soft, rubbery touch that feels nice. It can also be washed without any issue. The perfect amount of soap comes out and the spout doesn't get all gunked up. I like it so much that I may replace all my other dispensers with the same one. It comes from Target in many colors for like six bucks. I'll get off my literal soapbox now ;)

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And a plant. I had two in the pot but one has already perished.

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I'm just as minimal on the top of my cabinets. The framed "HISTORY" canvas is something I took years ago on a photowalk downtown. It was displayed at the Eccles Community Art Center during a black & white art competition in 2010. I thought putting something white higher up would draw the eye upward and also make the white in the room look more intentional.

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I don't know the technical name of this guy but I always thought these things were fun. I bought it a couple of years ago when I saw a mass of them in a bin at Ikea. I felt sorry for the trapped little wooden people and rescued one of them. I didn't have anywhere in mind to put him (pretty sure it's a him) but when I was looking around my house for top-of-the-cabinet decor I thought he would bring a bit of whimsy and kookiness to my personality-less kitchen. Honestly, he might be my favorite part of the whole thing...up there waving to us below.

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Now for the part the threw me for a few months. What do I do with the window over the sink? I didn't have enough fabric left over from the drapes. I'm not a valance person. I needed to keep the blinds because the sunlight is super harsh in the afternoon. After musing houzz photographs time and time again I finally got up enough nerve to just paint the window surround the same color as the other wall. I needed to carry that color somewhere else in the room anyway and it's more up my minimal alley. It took me a couple days to decide that I actually like it.  

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As for the scrolly thing over the window, eh, I had it and the size worked. Same with the mirror on the opposite wall. The mirror was actually given to us as a wedding gift and has been painted 5 different times.

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The silver tray was passed on to us from Rob's grandparents. I believe it is handmade from their stint in Pakistan and is beautiful.

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I ended up just covering up our old, cheap, scuffed-up table with a tablecloth I made from fabric I already had on hand. It's not the fabric I would have chosen at the store, but why buy when it's already on hand? Hmmm. Now that I'm looking at the picture I can see that it's way too short...maybe I'll be buying other fabric after all.

Here is our solution to no mudroom or even coat closet. It's not the prettiest system, especially being right in the eating area, but it's practical for us.

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Oh, how I wish that it always looked so clean!! You know what we said when we were younger, "Take a picture, it'll last longer." Here's to hoping that's true!


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Aug 17, 2014

Cara the Playful

My sweet little Caroline is one playful girl when you catch her in the right mood. In fact, she can be impossible to slow down when she gets into full swing. Earlier this year I was able to goof off with her for a few minutes while snapping some photos. I think these may be some of my favorite photos of Caroline. Hope you love these as much as I do.

Aug 11, 2014

Silly Snows

In June we went on an overnighter to Wasatch Mountain State Park in Heber. After we set up camp we explored the area and found an old pioneer homestead. We thought the setting was perfect for some sweet family pictures but then we decided to go a bit crazy with them instead. Using the tripod and a mixture of remote control and timer, we were able to capture these beauties. Behold  the silly Snows!


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And to end it all...


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Aug 3, 2014

Madi's Story

Today at church we sat behind the deacons. Madi turned to Julie and said, “hey we are sitting in front of the Dukes today.” She though about it for a moment, realized her mistake, giggled, and said, “wait, we are sitting behind the Dukes.”


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Jul 17, 2014

A Memoir of My Brother

Right after Brian passed away I had a fear of forgetting him. I didn't want my memories to fade so I typed them all down as they came to mind. I also saved emails from caring friends that were sent to me in my time of need. 

This whole process made me cry. A lot. It was also healing and helped me clear my brain so that I didn't have everything at the forefront of my thoughts at all times. It took me a year to finish writing it all down because the ending was too recent and painful for me to relive. After I finished I hid it away somewhere on my hard drive, figuring that I'd know the right time to share it with my family. 

Now, almost 7 (?!) years later, I opened it up figuring that I had emotionally spewed randomness all over the pages and it would need major editing and rewriting to make it presentable. It actually only needed a couple of clarifications and a little formatting before I decided it was good enough for private family reading. Just remember that these are my personal memories and are not necessarily factual. For that reason I've decided to keep a full version for myself and an ever-so-slightly edited version for everyone else. I'm sure you'll understand.

Today being his birthday, it's a hard day for my family. But lately I have felt more at ease with the idea of sharing my writings and more of an internal push to do so than ever before. I'm offering it up to those who wish to remember along with me. It made me smile and it made me cry but it ends with Rob's talk that he gave at the funeral. It reminds me how blessed we are and how happy I am that we are an eternal family and will see Brian again. 

-Julie

PS: I'm not actually posting the paper here (it's 35 pages). Please send me a message if you'd like me to email you a copy. 

Jul 11, 2014

A Boy on a Hill Sometimes I’m completely blown away by...





A Boy on a Hill


Sometimes I’m completely blown away by the creativity of little kids. And often it is just a bunch of little things and sometimes those little things just seem to be too much. Sometimes I feel like saying “slow down kiddos.”


However, sometimes things are just perfect. Take this afternoon for example.


We were headed out to a park in the neighborhood for me to play soccer and for the kids to play at the playground. Just before getting in the car Nate grabbed one of those floating kick board things that can be kind of fun in a pool. Thinking that he’ll just leave the silly toy at the park I said, you should really just leave that home.


He responded, I want to use it to slide down the hill.


I thought to myself that it would never work!


The kid really proved me wrong. Pretty soon he was sliding right down that hill like a penguin. Next time I’ll keep my mouth shut. Check out these videos to see for yourself.


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Glad to be Married to a Yoga Girl Last night after my run I was...





Glad to be Married to a Yoga Girl


Last night after my run I was feeling a little sore. Unfortunately, I’m not in the habit of stretching appropriately after running and needed a little help.


Fortunately my lovely Julie is more than capable and willing to help me out despite my general lack of skill and interest in doing any form of yoga. She led me through a few stretches and I did whine and moan a little because that is what I do; however, I felt much better immediately and that feeling continued to the next day. Thanks Julie for your patience and love!


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Jul 10, 2014

Wonderful Exploration (By Julie) Neighbors and Friends, My...





Wonderful Exploration (By Julie)


Neighbors and Friends,


My kids are active, imaginative, and creative kin. I would never apologize for that.


I do, however, apologize that you have to look at my crazy lawn, driveway, and garage every day day this summer. Go ahead and call this the ghetto house on the corner. I would agree with you.


Here is Nate and his friend disassembling a broken printer. They have been working on it for almost 3 hours!


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Jul 8, 2014

Grandma Clark

Two weeks ago my grandma Clark passed away in her sleep with my dad by her side.  This is how I remember her best.

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She always greeted me, even the week before she died and probably didn't remember exactly which granddaughter I was, with "Hi, Darlin'."

I have many good memories of her. Many. When we drove to her home in the Tehachapi Mountains, as soon as we passed the tree in the middle of the road, I knew we were right around the corner and I felt good. I loved the smell of the trees and sawdust and chickens. I loved the tree swing. I loved the creepy gate that led into an overgrown garden that we were warned was crawling with snakes. She also frequently reminded us of coyotes. I loved exploring with my brothers and sisters.



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My parents had been taking care of her for years. They'd given up vacations and even long day outings so that someone could always be with her. They fed her and cleaned her.  They took care of every need, both the significant and the fickle. They have been incredible examples to me, as have Rob's parents, of service beyond the expected.

Grandma was eccentric, kooky, and honest (sometimes overly). She never pretended to be someone she wasn't. The most important thing about grandma is that she loved me. And I loved her.

The funeral was beautiful. Rob put together this slideshow for the viewing. You can click on the black box below or follow the link.

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